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Hello, my name is Jay Spurlock. In the summer of 2015, the world as I knew it was turned upside down. Betrayal and infidelity can drastically change your perspective of relationships, and spill over into other aspects of your life. Throughout my painful recovery and the constant roller coaster of emotions, I went on a journey to discover my true self and ultimately my identity in Christ. Over the span of this trial, I discovered many excellent resources such as books, blogs, sermons, podcasts, and professional counsel. I hope to use this website,, to bring together all the wonderful resources I have discovered and provide others a great source of resources of whatever darkness they are facing.  My ultimate goal is to help others, SHINE THROUGH DARKNESS, while glorfying God. Please feel free to e-mail me anytime at Always remember to "LETYOURLIGHTSHINE"